Matilda Ledger, daughter of Heath Ledger and Michelle Williams, went walking with her mommy in Brooklyn yesterday as she celebrated her fourth birthday with breakfast in a coffee shop and a long morning stroll. It’s shocking to see how much Matilda has grown since her father’s passing.

Well, as summer exits, this always happens. People break up left and right, famous or not. The newest star couple to split is Michelle Williams and director Spike Jonze, which is kind of a bummer because I think we were all hoping that Michelle was moving on post-Heath Ledger in a healthy way. However, as she says in the October issue of Vogue, moving on felt anything but healthy, “The timing was impossible. I thought falling in love again was the only thing that was going to save me from the pain. This erroneous idea: It just makes things more complicated.”

What makes this even more sad it that her grieving process has been quite long and started even before Heath passed away. It’s been said that the only reason why the two broke up in the first place was because Michelle couldn’t watch his life-ruining drug use anymore. She goes on to say in the Vogue article “I was holding it together by a string and a paper clip in the fall and winter. I didn’t know if I could keep it all together … You console yourself by saying it’s all a deepening process. But it’s weird. After the first year, the pain is less intense — it’s less immediate. But the magical thinking goes away too. And that’s a whole new reckoning.”

What do you even say about that? I hope that Michelle is able to find some happiness soon.

Michelle Williams puts in some quality time with daughter Matilda, walking around in NYC.

Matilda’s growing up so fast!

“It’s so sad. I guess it’s always changing. What else can I say? I just wake up each day in a slightly different place – grief is like a moving river … It’s a strange thing to say, because I’m at heart an optimistic person, but I would say in some ways it just gets worse. It’s just that the more time that passes, the more you miss someone. In some ways it gets worse. That’s what I would say.”

Michelle Williams, speaking for the first time about the death of Heath Ledger.

Hooray for new love!

Michelle Williams and Spike Jonze were spotted being all lovey-dovey at Hollywood’s first green club, Ecco Ultra Lounge. I’d never heard of the place, so I checked out their website, and apparently they serve “organic lucid absinthe” which you’re told to “enjoy with caution.” ZOMG. To be 21 and living in LA again. I would enjoy, but not with caution. Hey, it’s organic! I’m helping!

Anyway.

Good to see things going well for Michelle.

That’s what Daily Mail is reporting.

Seven months after the death of Heath Ledger, Michelle Williams has apparently found love again in the arms of director Spike Jonze.

The two were spotted sucking face outside Jonze’s apartment in Manhattan. According to a source: “Michelle kissed Spike with a closed mouth on the corner of his lips. There was definitely a bit of caressing going on. She was clutching his arm. The body language was very romantic.”

Good for Michelle! If this is true, I’m happy to see that she’s moving forward with her life.

In an interview with Elle magazine just days before her former fiance’s death, Michelle Williams spoke about how she struggled through her break-up with Heath Ledger.

“I didn’t know where to go,” she said. “I couldn’t imagine any place in the world that was gonna feel good to me.”

She continues:

“I’m always aware of the whole. I have that feeling inside, like when something really tickles or delights me—it’s not singular. I recognize all the awful things in the world, and in spite of them, I can still laugh. For so long, I felt like a walking open wound everywhere I went. There’s this Joan Didion quote about being afflicted from an early age with a presentiment of loss. Did I come into the world like that? Or was I kind of gifted that?”

Aw, Michelle.